I once dated a girl who considered herself a "flirt." Her attitude was, "I'm coming to the bar with you. And I'm leaving with you. But inbetween, I will flirt with every other guy in the bar, dance with a bunch of different guys, and give out my number to whoever I want." She figured it was all good, since she was going home with me at the the end of the night.
But it wasn't all good. It is not fun to watch your date flirt with every other guy in the bar. You wind up hanging out by yourself for a good portion of the night, and that is not fun at all.
My date was an "Attention Whore," but she denied it. She tried to play it off like all these men were coming to her. The reality was, she encouraged them to approach her and she initiated contact as often as they did.
After one night of this behavior, I decided I did not want to see her again. Flirting can be a fun way to meet someone, but it is not fun to date someone who is a habitual flirter. As far as I'm concerned, you are either with the person you came with or you are not. You can't have it both ways.
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