There's a girl I met on the Internet -- she likes to call me all the time. She loves to write me e-mails and send me text messages. And she really loves to meet me in the chat room for some more quality time together.
There's only one thing she hasn't done, and that's actually meet me face-to-face -- despite my best efforts to make it happen. She went through a bad break-up last year and she says she just isn't ready to date anyone right now.
I think some girls like being in a cyber-relationship. It gives them the intimacy they're looking for without them having to actually leave the house. They don't have to deal with anything they don't want to deal with -- like a guy who might want to take the "relationship" to the next level.
My cyber-gal talks a good game, saying she would love to meet me/date me in the future -- but I know that future may never come. She enjoys the safety of our online "relationship." Me, I just get frustrated that I can't be with her. I consider it a form of torture every time she calls me.
I think people should be judged by their actions, not their words. People can promise you anything online, but unless they're actually willing to meet you in the flesh, their promises are just empty words, floating around in cyberspace.
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