Nothing in Common

The other night I dated a girl who I had nothing in common with. For most of the night, we sat, not really speaking to each other. It's a shame, because I am very attracted to her. Physically speaking, she is everything a guy could ever want: blonde, busty, pretty face.

There just wasn't any chemistry there. I got the impression that she is very quiet with new people, which is kind of weird, because she was aggressive enough to express an interest in me in the first place.

She is a local girl who grew up in the area. I am fairly new in town, and I don't really know a lot of people here. But she knows tons of people, most of them guys. All night long, she kept running into guys she knew. She kept running off to talk to all her guy friends. Sometimes she would introduce me to her guy friends, sometimes not. Either way, it didn't really matter to me. What could I possibly have to say to these guys?

Is there anything less fun than watching your date spending half the night talking to other guys? I don't see how that could be fun for anyone. My feeling is, when you go out with someone, that is the person you are with for the whole night. There is no reason to run off and talk to all these other people. That is just disrespectful.

At the end of the night, she gave me a half-hug goodbye and told me to call her again. I said I would, but I'm not really sure why. I can't exactly say it was a fun night. Still, I do find her very attractive, so maybe I'll give her a second chance.

Only next time, we'll go someplace where she doesn't know anyone.